I don’t know about you, but I enjoy finding new ways to “play” with my man. I will be blogging over the next few weeks about some creative ways to get a “handle” on your man’s favorite body part… his”Pride and Joy”.
I figure a little fun and informative sex education done tastefully can put a smile on everyone’s face. Foreplay is the spice that leads up to satisfying sex. It is the stuff that makes you sit around all day with a smile on your face. I am going to start by talking about how to give your man a mind-blowing handjob.
Ladies have you ever taken the time to really look at your man’s private parts. I mean really look at them. I can see why he is so fascinated with them. It really is a work of art. It goes from a soft innocent looking mass of skin to a rock hard stick that feels like it can nail you to a wall. Hmm… that sounds like fun : ) Sorry, I got a little sidetracked there for a moment.
Anyway, I want to share some simple and fun ways to please your man that provide you with options that can prevent lockjaw or tendinitis. I am going to spread them out over a few days. Guys, if you are reading this your feedback is welcome.
To start, if possible, set aside a little quality time with your man. Maybe one evening take a shower together. This can be a simple way to meet his “Pride and Joy” without any pressure on you. While in the shower watch how he touches himself then, be bold and ask if you can wash him. Tell him you have been doing a little extra reading about some sexy ways to enjoy each other. I seriously doubt that he will tell you “No”. Since we both know he is always trying to think of ways to convince you to spend more time touching him.
Take your time, lather up with a really good scented shower gel, and let you eyes and hands do the talking for you. Pay attention to how he reacts to your touch. Be bold… ask him how it feels. Let him guide you every now and then. Now, before you both turn into prunes… step out of the shower, dry off, and go make love.
The above is phase 1… Let’s call it the “Introduction”. Because, I figure the new things you will learn through this blog will basically feel like you are writing your personal erotic story.
Now let’s start with an idea or two for “Chapter 1″.
The first technique I would like to share with you… Can feel very ceremonial and create a closeness between you and your man very early into your sensual session.
Here it is:
You will need a nice plush towel to place under your man and a real luxurious oil… something like almond or olive oil. You may also use some type of lubricant. I like Kama Sutra’s Pleasure Lotion or ID Millennium Moisturizing Lubricant.
To add to the sexiness of the moment… light some candles and put on some mood-enhancing music. Now… before you begin a few important tips… the head of his “Pride & Joy”(known from now known as his “P&J”) is very sensitive. It is full of many nerve endings… treat it with tender loving care. The shaft can be handled with controlled aggression… meaning you can use a stronger and more forceful grip.
Okay let’s move on. Place the towel on your bed and have your man lay on it. Make sure he is nice and comfortable. By now, I am sure he is hard as a rock so, things will be much more exciting for both of you. Once he is situated. Take the oil and pour it over the back of your hand letting it run down over his “P&J”… we are going for the visual effect as well as the sensation of touch… Slowly rub the oil all over this “P&J”, taking the time to enjoy the sight and texture of your man. Now, holding the base of his “P&J” with one hand… slide your other hand up to the tip. Squeeze him like you do when squeezing an orange or lemon… pulsing tightly and releasing several times as you work your way up to the top. The squeezing and releasing will remind him of how it feels when he is deep inside of you. Keep on working your hand up and down, switching hands to keep it interesting.
Another “twist” to playing with him is this next technique.
It is a very simple but pleasing trick. Take your well lubricated hands and twist them in opposite directions as you use them to travel up and down his “P&J” You are in control so do what ever you like… go fast then slow down, increase the pressure from top to bottom then reverse the direction… go from the bottom to the top. His pleasure and yours is completely in your hands.
So enjoy and let me know how it feels to “Handle” your man.
Take care, Cyndi
If you would like more fun ideas before my next blog click HERE.
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